How it works
From reaching out to actually meeting, honestly explained.
No app to download, no swiping, no profile. Here's exactly what happens at each step, so there are no surprises.
Step 1
You reach out
Fill in the short form on the homepage — just your name and a phone number we can reach you on, email is optional. That's the entire signup. No account, no password, no photo required. Most women take under a minute to do this.
Step 2
A real person calls or messages you
Someone from our team reaches out personally, usually the same day. This isn't a bot or an automated text — it's a short, low-pressure conversation to understand what you're actually looking for: something casual, a one-time thing, someone specific in mind, or you're just curious and not sure yet. All of that is fine to say.
This call is also where we do a basic check on our end before considering any introduction — we're not matching you with the first person who also filled in a form. If something about a potential introduction doesn't sit right, we don't make it.
Step 3
We suggest an introduction — or we don't
If there's someone we think is a genuine fit for what you described, we tell you a bit about them first — never a link to a profile, because there isn't one. You decide, with real information, whether you want us to make the introduction at all.
If nothing fits well right now, we say so. We'd rather tell you honestly that we don't have a good match yet than push an introduction just to have made one.
Step 4
You choose what happens next
An introduction might mean a phone call between you two first, or going straight to messaging, or meeting somewhere public — entirely your call. Nothing is scheduled or arranged without you actively agreeing to it at every step. You can also change your mind at any point, for any reason, with no explanation needed.
What if it's not what you expected?
Tell us. If a call felt off, an introduction wasn't what you asked for, or you just want to stop, say so through the contact form — a real person reads it and follows up. See our safety page for what to do if something happens after you've been introduced to someone.