Safety
What we check, and what's still on you to check too.
Being introduced by a real person instead of an open app removes a lot of risk — but not all of it. Here's the honest picture of both sides.
What Soul Meet does before any introduction
- A phone conversation with both sides before we ever suggest connecting you — we don't introduce people we haven't actually spoken to.
- We don't proceed if something about a conversation feels evasive or inconsistent.
- Your number is never given directly to anyone — we make introductions ourselves, and you decide from there whether to share more.
- Any report of bad behavior means that person is never introduced again through us.
Being honest about the limits of this: a phone conversation is not a background check. We can't verify everything about a stranger, and neither can any app, agency, or friend-of-a-friend introduction. Treat our vetting as a first filter, not a guarantee — see how to spot a genuine connection yourself for what to watch for.
Before you meet in person
- Talk on the phone first. Text alone hides a lot. A short call tells you more in two minutes than a week of messages.
- Tell a friend the basics. Who you're meeting, roughly where, and roughly when. You don't need to explain the app or the context — just the fact of it.
- Choose the place yourself. A public spot you already know — a café, a mall, anywhere with people around — not somewhere he picks that you've never been.
- Arrange your own way there and back. Your own cab or auto, not a ride from him, at least for a first meeting.
- Keep your phone charged and on you. Share your live location with the friend you told, for the duration of the meeting.
During the meeting
- Trust a bad feeling immediately — you don't need a reason to leave, and you don't owe an explanation.
- Keep your drink with you or watch it being made, same as anywhere else you'd apply that rule.
- If plans change last-minute (different location, "come to my place instead"), that's a reasonable moment to say no and reassess, not something to feel obligated to go along with.
If something feels wrong
Use the quick exit button on the homepage if you need to leave the site fast — it swaps the page to something harmless instantly. To report a person or a concern about how an introduction went, use the contact form. A real person reads every report personally, and that introduction is never made again through us. See also our guide to dating scam red flags in India, or how this applies specifically to private dating in Delhi.